It's not OK at all to cheat on!

I don’t really talk about my relationship, or may be I only talked about the happy ones. Actually I had bad experiences in my relationships. I got cheated a lot, different kinds of cheating. I don’t have a lot of boyfriends….yet. My first relationship was around 4 years and the 2^nd one for 10 months, just FYI.

Since I always post the good side of my relationship, now I talk about the bad ones. May be this can be a read for guys, at least for you to know what are the don’ts? These are based on my experiences, feelings, personality and opinions.

First, what kind of girlfriend am I? I’m not a gf who controls bf a lot, I allow my bf to go out with his girlfriends but not the ex (unless high school ex); it’s ok to go home late; he can go travel with his friends, etc. OK, since I don’t really control, basically my bf has quite a lot of freedom to have his own life. How kind can I be? I forgave my ex, twice, for making "love" with other girls. How did I find out? His love biteS!

A brief of my type of guy: doesn’t really party, doesn’t really drink, it’s ok to smoke but too over is a NO to me. So I will always expect my bf is a good boy since he doesn’t party. Then I learnt that the typical good bf (doesn’t drink and party), doesn’t mean he doesn’t cheat!

1. It’s not OK to date/go out with my best friend without telling me.  

Bf: It was just a dinner, nothing else, I never touch her.

Gf: Then why are you hiding it from me?

Bf: I was afraid that you would mind.

Gf: Then why still wanna do things that I’m not happy of?

See, this is what I’ll be mad of. First, I’m OK for my bf to go out with anyone, including my friends, but if   

he hides it from me, isn’t this suspicious? Then there must be something behind that they don’t want to let 

me know. May be…scandalizing? Nah…

Second, if my bf knows I’m not happy, then why do? Why? Is my best friend more important than me?

    I confronted this friend, then she told me “Everyone lies.” F*ck You. YES! Everyone lies. I lied my  

    parents, my friends, but I never lie to my bf. OK, may be lied about little things like “I drank only one  
    tin of beer.” Can you imagine how pek cek was I when my friend sided my bf telling me- it’s ok~ 
   everyone lies, not a big deal. Excuse me. You cheat on your bf, or may be you don’t mind your bf to 
   cheat on you, then it’s your business. I’m not OK for my bf to cheat on me.

2. I’m OK for my bf to call other girls Sweetie, Darlings, Dear, Pretty, etc. but no sweet talk! Am I too dumb to be ok? Well, I can understand because some guys call me “Pretty” too, it doesn't mean we have something shady behind. Why the bfs want to sweet talk with other girls? It’s doesn't make you any charm. It makes the girls think that you’re not a good bf, and you’re not making your gf proud!

3. Gf: Why you cheat on me? Why did you bring her to your home!?

Bf: I’m not cheating. I just invited her to have a dinner. My parents were at home too.

F*ck you! It makes no sense at all. It doesn't make me feel any better to know that your family was at home  

too. So? I tell you, I brought my scandal home and had a nice dinner with my family. Are you ok? I don’t 

see it makes sense at all. In addition to this suspicious case, why you didn’t tell me that you invited her 

home?

Guys, things that are related to other girls, and if you don’t inform your gf, it’s considered a cheat because you hide it. When you don’t inform, no matter it’s just a dinner, a gathering, a discussion, etc, when your gf finds out, it really makes thing suspicious.

4. Bf: I treat you good enough, I bought you branded stuffs, I cook for you every day……….

So…I have to accept it when you have a scandal!? ……………….hello bf, answer me please.

Treating someone good is easy, I treat my bf good too. But doesn’t mean that my bf can cheat on me. I can find a better guy who treats me nice and doesn’t cheat :)

You can blame her scold her for making a small matter such a big deal, for being suspicious and like a psycho, HEY, you have the responsibility to be honest to your gf, to make your gf feels secure and comfortable.

OK, I shouldn’t be bias. Girls cheat too, I know.

A happy relationship is when it’s comfortable. It’s when little things can make each other happy.- quoted by Carol Lim. *wink*

幸福的男人

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I asked a friend, "为什么男子谈恋爱后会越变越肥？"

He replied, "幸福啊。"

Melted the girlfriend's heart. 

True Love Story

有一对情侣吵架吵得很厉害。然后。。。

男：你去看你的车后尾。

女：做末！？你放炸弹想炸我哈！？

男：你去看先。

女生气的开了车尾，然后看到。。。

她最爱的kitty, 甜甜了一笑 ^^

Videos Sharing

Wanna share these videos I just watched which amazed me. 

This little girl is so good in making the sexy expressions and moves! They are so cute in flirting each other. I wonder if the little girl understands what her moves mean, or she just memorise whatever the tutor taught her.  Must watch!

Sometimes you just don't know there's a security cam behind you that records every moves of yours. The purpose of the cam is normally to prevent crimes, or to help in criminal cases. 

But in this video, it's a compilation of videos from coca cola security cams that show human kindness and love around the world. 

I think I wanna marry you~

I just watched this. This is so creative so good, and so touching :):

Every time I watch proposal or wedding videos, or attend friends' wedding, the couples are so sweet that I can't wait my big day to arrive.

I will start to wonder who is going to be my husband, what kind of person he is.

Getting married is my dream!

At the same time, I'm afraid I'll become a spinster...I don't wish that to happen.

So when my mom told my grandma, "It's ok if she's not going to marry. Marriage is not necessary for women nowadays."

I was so upset because I really want to get married.

I thought parents would be worried if their children are still single in their late 20s, and will even match making for them, but my mom is not worry at all?

I thought parents hope their children go through this important process of life.

Everytime I broke up with my boyfriend, I will cry like the world is going to end "我怕我嫁不出..."

Then my friend will say "You're just 21!" and they will think it is impossible for me to become a spinster, but who knows!

Most of my girl friends who are in their late 20s, they all say they don't wanna get marry now. =.=" we think differently as we grow older? I will still choose to think "I must get married and have children!"

Anyway, here's my cousin wedding video which I like it too and the videoman amazed me because he edited the video SOOOOOO fast which it actually played on that night immediately:

Feel the sweet!